Wednesday, December 23, 2020
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Monday, November 23, 2020
Thursday, November 5, 2020
Reeves Relay part three Pilgrims
O the pilgrims
Imagine in the 1620s in Massachusetts going into the winter where are you will face your first NorthEaster. Wind and temperature you probably never experienced in England. Keep in mind there is no insulation. You have a little food and by spring half of you will be dead. Social distancing was not a problem.
Take time to visit the lonely.
That puts our experiences rather different perspective Something to be thankful for. I am thankful for the heat, light, food, and family support. Thank you, Lord
Actually call, Come on millennials get real - Call, actually write a letter.
As we approach the holidays how can we embrace our traditions this year with Covid?
Since COVID-19 is quite contagious we will have to embrace health and safety for our loved ones.
This season we may see more celebrations done with smaller familiar settings. Parents with their children, older grandparents with one another.
How do we reach out to those in our family that may be alone? Are those people virus-free? Are they fragile in their health? How can you reach out to them?
- Telephone, video calls
- Prepare and deliver meals
- Visits through glass doors
- Write mail letters
We have many challenges. I think them through and try to solve the problems.
We may have to have several smaller family gatherings at various times. I'm gonna throw this out there, don't text - call, If you can use video calls. Make it as personal as possible.
Write a Letter of Thanks
I would say that we are out of the practice of writing personal letters. I know we need to learn to reuse our phones and actually call people. Texting has its limitations in a sense of commitment where we tell people we don't have the time to commit to a phone call.
If you use electronic mailing or messaging there is a voice connection. But in the message cursive writing may convey a personal touch. People may have to decode it for its no longer used a lot. But it may in a personal way to the communication of loving thanks. If you do not write cursive write the letter out using a font on your word processor. Sign your own signature.
Using actual mail with letter and stamp I think would be really special. Writing to loved ones may become a keepsake for many years. Letters are often kept. By them you can record your loved things for people that you care about. At this time the letter itself may be a special encouragement.
Suggestions:
- Keep the letter brief enough to stay on point. Most of us if we write too long it may not be as good.
- It is a good idea to write 3 to 5 things you are thankful for that person.
- Thankfulness can also express appreciation or love.
- Express the hope that COVID-19 will be overcome and your desire to see your loved ones remain a top priority.
I hope these thoughts stimulate your own creative juices to express things and love during the holiday season. Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's Day, Family gatherings are what we want to return to. Human isolation is not the new norm.
In the Lamb
Bill Reeves Jr.
Reeves Raley November Gratitude a game-changer pt 1
Char Sandberg writing in this month’s newsletter for Meijer Clinic that gratitude can be an antidote for fear. With the coming of COVID-19, we have undergone a number of changes where flexibility is required by everybody.
Now we are in the holiday season where there will be many who will experience the holidays alone. This forced loneliness in isolation for many is just one of the casualties of war with this virus.
We may feel powerless to do anything about it at first but Char reminds us “God has not given a spirit of fear but of love, of power and of sound mind” second Timothy 1:7. We can have many negative emotions running rampant right now. Anxiety, fear, loneliness, if we feel alone and the holidays we often think so absolutely with the feeling that we are the only person experiencing this loneliness. Negative thinking often operates in the area of absolutes.
Well, first of all, challenge all negative thinking. Find something that contradicts it. In this case, many people are going through this the same problem. You are not alone. Many of us have the same feeling.
Char Sandburg points out expressing gratitude is a very biblical idea. Furthermore modern research and studies verify the power to change our brain expressing gratitude throughout the day as needed. She shares that we may not be able to change our circumstances but we can change our thoughts, feelings, and behavior that will make all the difference in how we go through our experiences.
Take time to express your gratitude. Write them down. I often challenge myself to think of 3-5 things that I am thankful for. Even one thing can make a difference. Shifting to a solid idea of love, forgiveness, thankfulness can change the negative emotions to positive ones. The effect on the brain is enormous and the change of attitude gives us the strength to deal with those things changes that come.
https://www.meierclinics.com/gratitude-the-antidote-to-fear/
Char Sandberg was one of my therapists as I recovered from depression and anxiety and post-traumatic stress.
How can you help people you know isolated from Covid and health issues? We all have a ministry to comfort.
Give thanks
In everything give thanks. For us to make this part of our practice we will have to give it some thought. I think that is the idea of it is to give it some thought. If we are shifting from a negative thought to a positive expression of thanks; we have to think it through. Our experience will show us how useful this is and will encourage us to practice 1 Thess. 5:18.
By the way, it is an easy verse to memorize & meditate on.
Sunday, November 1, 2020
Thursday, October 15, 2020
Monday, October 12, 2020
Saturday, October 3, 2020
Tuesday, September 22, 2020
Can’t give up
Homework week 1 - Travels with Paul
Ephesus |
Come join me on Monday nights for a virtual journey. Pack your virtual bags and we are off.
https://www.raystedman.org/new-testament/acts
https://bible.org/series/studies-book-acts
https://netbible.org/bible/Matthew+1
https://bible.org/book/Acts
https://www.biblegateway.com/resources/ivp-nt/toc/
Choose one
- I want to be very flexible in choosing a commentary or guide in the book of acts. You can order Charles Swindoll's commentary on acts either as a kindle book or paper back through an online bookstore seller or Amazon. Very good
- But you can also go to the websites above and use various commentary options. If you go to Bible Gateway and work your way through the menu in sources and commentaries follow the Tyndale commentaries and you will get to the book of acts by Howard Marshall. Evangelical, excellent for context and history
- If you go to bible.org you will discover their lumina page where are you can use Thomas constable commentary on acts. Or you can go to his website by typing his name in your browser and you can download a PDF file of his commentary and Acts.
- Ray Stedman has audio and text files on Acts. Very good
- At study light.org are very good resources. Above I take you to the commentary page where you will find Ironside, A. T. Robinson, and CI Scofield. Remember I am asking to choose 1 from what I listed.
Secondary options:
bible.org has other options on Acts,
https://ccel.org/ccel/ramsay/paul_roman
https://ccel.org/ccel/ramsay/letters
Follow up study - do what you can - Read Acts 18:18-22; 23-28; 19-20:1; 1 Cor. 16:8, 9
Read the Book of Ephesians looking for the teaching meant for the first century. Consider the original occasion for the letter.
Memorize Ephesian 5:15
Friday, September 18, 2020
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Monday, June 1, 2020
Friday, May 29, 2020
Enjoying the outdoors
Sunday, May 24, 2020
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Sunday, May 3, 2020
Monday, April 27, 2020
Nursing homes simply were not ready - Are we prepared to make them better?
- All of our retirement plans must invest in nursing home care.
- We have to encourage qualifications with an incentive for education. I always knew to improve job performance as para pros in education, (they are good people) but to improve work there have to be incentives for education and qualifications. Many para pros in healthcare are there as aids. They are needed, but they need to be educated in qualified as professionals in their work. Nursing homes depend a lot on LPN’s. Their training is about a year unless it's been updated. But they need incentives for education for example level one two and three. Each with training to go with it. Their license may require education units to stay licensed. But these incentives have to be matched with pay. Not a lot of people are going to do this for nothing.
- Maybe it is time for nursing homes to employ physician assistants.
- Nursing homes can develop a mobile virtual assessment cart. Here the Dr. can see the patient and have the necessary vital signs the doctors looking for to help evaluate care. Working with the doctor's assistants, RNs, and staff. Puts the elderly patient in quarantine or even regularly in better contact with the physician.
- We have on a personal level to expect as we get older will have more health issues. We are not all going to be working on a beach in the Caribbean.
- I think about veterans in VA homes, many older people in nursing homes are lonely and forgotten. In what I hope is a historical event, not a regular one, we need to prepare virtual visits that we give regularly to the ones we love. Life isn't perfect but there's a lot of things we can do.
Friday, April 24, 2020
Saturday, April 18, 2020
Questions, Questions Living with COVID 19
Decisions to save lives will be noble but as we move forward may not be appreciated as we recover to normal. Doctors will soon find lawyers pushing back in the weeks and months ahead. Hype and loss of freedom is part of this discussion. We rarely call the media into account as they move for ratings. The media will sway with no moral base to wherever the wind may blow.
I want to see ballparks filled again and freedom restored. I am concerned we will lose freedom.
Will steps taken this time to restrict public gatherings be used next time to restrict gatherings those in power oppose? I believe the government acted in goodwill this time but we have to raise 1st amendment rights each time this takes place. Martial law sometimes comes into place. Here we see it because of medical concerns. Will actions from this point further move in the direction COVID 19 reveals with solid data and knowledge or will it be used to broaden elitist control left or right? Hold to your political beliefs but I encourage thought concerning our basic rights. Mitigation seems most reasonable in regard to lives lost to fight this unseen enemy. It can not sustain us but it seemed wise to apply it. It is my hope we ask a lot of questions and maybe next time we can target our mitigation better.
Was this a created virus by humans? Will terrorists change weapons to bio-weapons after seeing how we reacted and worldwide? I ran into a line of argument concerning hype and loss of freedom is part of this outbreak? The impact of being confined for part of March and April some states like Illinois possibly going on into May will have many unintended negative consequences of loss of work, school, suicide, abuse. A strong argument for our mitigation actions is the millions of lives saved. The president and team projected 2,200,000 which I believe is a conservative estimate. My estimate was 1% of 350,000,000 or 3.5 million. The actual numbers so far are lower, thank God. Decisions to save lives will be noble but as we move forward may not be appreciated as we recover to normal. Doctors will soon find lawyers pushing back in the weeks and months ahead. Hype and loss of freedom is part of this discussion. We rarely call the media into account as they move for ratings. The media will sway with no moral base to wherever the wind may blow.
I want to see ballparks filled again and freedom restored. I am concerned we will lose freedom. Will steps taken this time to restrict public gatherings be used next time to restrict gatherings those in power oppose? I believe the government acted in goodwill this time but we have to raise 1st amendment rights each time this takes place. Martial law sometimes comes into place. Here we see it because of medical concerns. Will actions from this point further move in the direction COVID 19 reveals with solid data and knowledge or will it be used to broaden elitist control left or right? Hold to your political beliefs but I encourage thought concerning our basic rights. Mitigation seems most reasonable in regard to lives lost to fight this unseen enemy. It can not sustain us but it seemed wise to apply it. It is my hope we ask a lot of questions and maybe next time we can target our mitigation better.
Was this a created virus by humans? Will terrorists change weapons to bio-weapons after seeing how we reacted worldwide response? If we have the ability to create viruses what will be done in the name of science or defense in the future? Science can be used for good or bad. We have learned that right?
Did we do well regarding the most vulnerable, the aged and those whose health has been compromised? Did we improve therapy for the people in the nursing home that could help some of these people survive? Were they so weak and aged that this fast-spreading and powerful virus overcome them? Are there times when we are helpless against death? This taps into our greatest fear. We may be so afraid we attack each other and follow unreasonable behavior.
My wife and I have been living with COVID 19. She contacted it helping disabled adults as an RN. After she came down with the virus she was tested with drive-in testing that wasn't even in our county. She tested positive. I came down with flu-like symptoms several days later. When her health improved, I called my doctor had a virtual check-up with him and he agreed I needed to be tested. Because I am not in health-care I was tested at a local hospital drive-in which sends a test to the lab. I am still waiting for the results. As soon as I hear, I will share the results. Questions. The delay in this disease is not good. That is a good question, Can we create lab connections that are faster?
In my next blog, I would like to explore improving elderly care? What are our limits? In a local nursing home, there have been 24 deaths out of 120 people in the home. That is 17% of those in the home. Scary, keep walking
Thursday, April 9, 2020
Monday, March 23, 2020
Covid-19 Preparing for what if and reducing stress
Time to reduce stress |
Below I share links to Mayo, CDC, Harvard Medical and My local state. These sites have good information we need to fight this virus.
According to the CDC, the symptoms are in serious cases:
- Difficulty breathing or shortness of breath
- Persistent pain or pressure in the chest
- New confusion or inability to arouse
- Bluish lips or face
- Pain relievers (ibuprofen or acetaminophen)
- Cough syrup or medication
- Rest
- Fluid intake
Mayo had very good information to lower your stress over the coverage of the virus which in turn helps you better fight the virus. Since the media lives off this crisis like a shark in the water, limit yourself from their hyping things up. Reducing time spent helping their ratings to activities you enjoy will reduce news stress.
Covid-19 is more serious than the flu, but we can fight it and give ourselves the best chance to get through this. Keep walking
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/coronavirus/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20479976
https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/prepare/prevention.html
coronavirus-resource-center
http://dph.illinois.gov/topics-services/diseases-and-conditions/diseases-a-z-list/coronavirus
Wednesday, February 12, 2020
Wednesday, January 29, 2020
Reached 100,000 Hits
I haven't been writing a lot lately but people continue to visit the blog and find posts to read. In the Fatman walking, I explore what I have discovered that helps to keep moving and keep my health up as I age.
There are four basic enemies that can cut our lives short heart disease and cardiovascular disease, strokes are part of this; cancer, diabetes, and I have added dementia.
As we age there are other issues we face, but these four are on top of the list.
Being a Fatman obesity is a battle. With aging our metabolism slows down and our health may bring mobility problems that make weight even more difficult to manage. I have seen research on how our body resists our efforts to lose weight.
In my blog, I have been open to mental health issues of dealing with depression, insomnia, anxiety and later post-traumatic stress. These things are in remission and I am happy to report this old man isn't living a grumpy, blue life unable to sleep.
Biking, resistant training, flexibility, shadow boxing all play a part in fitness.
Walking the dog is an easy 1-mile walk at the end of the day |
I have shared the stories of people who have lived long lives and why they were able.
My perspective is not from a health expert, but a fat old man. I hope it encourages you to keep walking. Thank you for hitting my blog 100,000 times.