Tuesday, August 25, 2015

Growing older together

I subject I rarely write about but should more often is about aging and sex. In particular how does walking help with a healthy sex life as we age. I made the following comment on a blog I follow and the writer wrote back. Leslie wrote an opinion on the new marketing of a female viagra pill. Follow the link below for her discussion:

"Sexuality as a age I find is interesting. I have occasionally used viagra. What I believe works better without side effects is a love marriage where in a relaxing atmosphere everything is worked out. I at least experience definite changes as we age. When love comes with sexuality even as we decline the relationship continues to meet the challenges. The drug may be helpful, but it can't replace old lovers."
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    Hi Bill, I agree with you, that love and understanding are likely to make more of a difference than a pill. Love this phrase, "when love comes with sexuality, even as we decline the relationship continues to meet the challenges." So good!!
Read more at http://www.leslieleylandfields.com/2015/08/do-women-need-anti-viagra-drug-what.html#OjFvl0PeVvOeBLLX.99

Female viagra explained
https://www.sharecare.com/health/sex-and-relationships/slideshow/female-viagra-explained-in-5-clicks
How do they work through sex issues?
What if they can't have sex, how are they coping?
Walking has the following benefits for aging lovers. 
Walking aerobically opens the blood vessels for increase blood flow through out the body. It is definitely a plus for the brain and body.
Walking helps keep the weight off which in turn helps with lovemaking. 
Recumbent bikes have a better seat design which will not restrict blood flow.
Walking helps the heart and that in turn helps our sex life.
http://walking.about.com/od/malehealth/a/edwalkgood.htm
More important then walking is the intimacy of the relationship gets older that works through the issues that come with our decline. A loving couple will have the ability to adapt to the changes that occur as we get older. Even when we can longer have sex due to health, the closeness, touch, and intimate companionship remains.
It is very hard for Hollywood, popular media to get a handle on old lovers. We wince at the thought of old lovers. Many men discard their wives for younger models, insane in my opinion. 
Go for a walk, do romantic things, work through together viagra or not and grow old together. Keep walking
Proverbs 5:18, 19 "Let your fountain be blessed, and take pleasure in the wife of your youth. 19 A loving doe, a graceful fawn —let her breasts always satisfy you; be lost in her love forever."

1 comment:

  1. "When love comes with sexuality even as we decline the relationship continues to meet the challenges." Share that

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